Over 10 days, we'll put you in front of good-looking, healthy, well-balanced people who are actually available, in a country that values equality, free time, and personal self care.
To make sure you're ready, we'll also:
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Set you up with a glam headshot shoot, for photos you'll finally want to use.
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Take you on a wine tour through Maastricht.
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Rework your dating profile with hands-on guidance.
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Run speed dating events while you're here.
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Provide professional coaching to help you work through your patterns in romance, and feel confident in what you genuinely want.
Bethany and her Dutch husband, Robin
We didn't read this in a book. We moved here, did the work, and both married Dutch people, so we know exactly what changes once you stop waiting and actually go.
And you won't be doing the inner work alone. The coaching is led by a licensed counselor in the US and a professional coach, who's with you through all of it, from spotting your old patterns, to embracing your true inner self, to getting clear on what you actually want out of romance.
A new zip code on its own won't fix your love life. Real inner work paired with an actual move is the combination that does. Once you're living here, the odds tip hard in your favor. The dating pool is full of people who are emotionally grown, balanced, and genuinely fun, with healthy lives and real free time instead of the burnout you left behind. Dating starts to feel good.
We can't promise you'll meet your person on the trip. But we built it so you could, and if you decide to stay, you'll have a whole country's worth of chances.
Is moving to the Netherlands actually realistic for me?
For a lot of Americans, yes, and faster than you'd think. We walk you through the real pathways, including the DAFT visa, plus housing, taxes, and all the parts that usually feel overwhelming.
What if I don't meet someone on the trip?
We can't hand you a soulmate. What we can promise is that you'll leave clearer, more confident, and a lot better at dating than when you arrived, with a real plan and the tools to keep going. And if you make the move, the odds only climb from there.
I've done therapy and dating coaching before, and nothing really stuck. Why would this be different?
Because working on your patterns inside the same life that built them only gets you so far. This pairs the inner work with an actual change of scenery, new country, new people, a real reset, so the insights finally have somewhere to land. You're stepping into a whole new environment, dating pool, and life.
Who is this for?
Singles who are done waiting, open to a real change, and serious about building a healthier love life.
This tour is open to everyone. Women, men, and every gender. Whoever you are and whoever you're hoping to meet, you're welcome here.
Do I have to move abroad to do this?
Not at all. A lot of people come to test-drive the idea and feel out what living here is actually like before committing to anything. You'll leave knowing whether the Netherlands is your next move, and better off either way.
Is it selfish to do all of this for myself?
If you're anything like us, you've spent decades putting everyone else first. This is the part where you get to choose something for you. We'd call that overdue, not indulgent. Think of it less as a splurge and more as a down payment on the next thirty years, because you've got every one of them ahead of you.
You already know the life you're living and the one you keep picturing aren't the same. This is how you close the gap. Ten days, real coaching, a whole new country, and a genuine shot at the love and the life you stopped letting yourself want.
The September 2026 group is small and fills fast. A deposit holds your spot, and we'll be in touch to walk you through everything from there.
Move Abroad and Find Love
September 19 - September 27, 2026
WHAT'S INCLUDED:
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Relationship and life coaching throughout the experience
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All tickets and entrances to activities, workshops with experts, and entertainment
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Guided neighbourhood walks, city tours, and local experiences
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All transportation during the tour including trains, bikes, buses, boats, and trams
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Access to the GTFO expat community and network
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Networking events to build your community if you choose to move
WHAT'S NOT INCLUDED:
Flights and airport transfers
Hotel accommodation
Meals
Flights, accommodation, and meals typically run €2,000 to €3,000 depending on the season. We're happy to share neighborhood and hotel recommendations when you book.
Book Your Love Abroad Tour
Total Tour Investment
€4,400 total per person
Reserve your spot with a deposit of
€1,995
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is included in the tour?
All coaching, all seminars and workshops with our experts, entries to all of our scheduled activities, tickets to events and entertainment, and transportation during the tour including trains, bikes, buses, boats, and trams are included in the price.
What is not included?
Flights, airport transfers, hotel, and meals. Depending on the season, budget approximately €2,000 to €3,000 for these costs. Contact us if you have more questions about costs.
What happens after I pay my deposit?
You will receive an invoice for the remaining balance shortly after your deposit is processed. Final payment is due 30 days before your tour date.
What is the refund policy?
Deposits are non-refundable within 30 days of the tour. If you need to cancel before that window, please reach out to us directly.